How Parents are responsible for sexual escapades of their kids

MOTHERS PLEASE IT IS VERY WRONG TO DRESS UP OR UNDRESS IN THE PRESENCE OF YOUR CHILDREN, ESPECIALLY THE MALE ONES. DO NOT THINK IT DOESN'T MATTER. PLEASE IT MATTERS A LOT. REMEMBER, YOU CAN ONLY BEND A FISH TO THE SHAPE OF YOUR CHOICE WHEN IT IS ONLY STILL FRESH. IF YOU TRY IT WHEN IT IS ROASTED OR DRIED IT WILL BREAK.

Pease let your male children always excuse you when dressing or undressing especially children from the age of 3 years old. *MY MUM DRESSES UP BEFORE ME!* I counselled a young guy who was addicted to masturbation.

He told me he can't do without masturbation. One thing that struck me in his confession was when he said, *'my mum caused all this for me'. *Curiosity got hold of me and I asked him how?
He said; *he started masturbation since when he was 4 years old. My mum had always been dressing up naked before me; I used to see her nakedness.

I was not moved to have sex with her but I always long to see mature ladies naked just the way I always saw my mum dressing up naked before me.

I still remember seeing her nakedness regularly till I was 8 years and my dad used to shout at her, 'send this boy out before you dress...' , but my mum would always reply by saying, *'will my son sleep with me?*

*Stop planting evil thought in his heart', my mum would say. Anytime I saw my mum's naked body, I longed to see ladies' naked body.  I then went into sex at age 10 and till now I am not free from sex and heavy pornography and masturbation...'

Dear parents, I hope you are not guilty of this? You are dressing up before your 2 years son/daughter and you think he/she doesn't know anything yet? That’s very cruel.
Some couples will be having sex while their close to 2 years old child will be in their room with them and they feel he can only see, he can't understand.

Sir and Madam, that your child does not need to understand. Seeing your nakedness or seeing both of you making love is enough to plant abnormal sexual fantasies and urge in that child. Remember, this is a jet world! How will you destroy your own children with your own carelessness?

Don't let your children see your nakedness. Don't make love in the presence of your child no matter the age. The scene sticks to the memory and they may want to explore and experiment what they saw.
Stopping making free home-made 'sex clips or video' for your children to be watching. Mummy, sit properly. Dress properly too. Stop sitting as if you are in the labour room - parting your legs for your son to see your inner tight and pant. Be careful!

Daddy, don't wear ordinary boxer at home that you sit down and your 'thing' is dangling and your daughter is seeing it. There are things you should not wear beyond your bedroom, just for your spouse.

Don't say because you want to enjoy your freedom in your house. It is not your house alone - it is a family house. You are putting your children into sexual bondage through these acts.
Mummy, wearing ordinary bra around the house in the presence of your sons is dangerous. Yes, they won't lust after you but you might be messing up and increasing their curiosity to see the breasts of ladies out there. Let's stop being 'pornographic materials' to our children.
Raising sexually pure children, it begins at home.
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